One of the best things about my coaching & mentorship style is that I don't hide the fact that I'm *still learning* how to maintain my extraordinary marriage. So let me share a little about myself.

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I'm a mum, stepmum and wife to the coolest, most bad ass, most hilarious and sexiest man in the world. And my genius is showing you how to transform your marriage so that you genuinely feel that way about your partner too.


Hubby & I have been together for 16 years. I became a stepmum to his beautiful girls when I was 21. 

They were 8yrs & 12 yrs at the time. We had shared care with their mumma- week on/week off. I made lunch boxes, drove them to school, all the things.

Five years later we had our first born, then our second born shortly after. Around this time my hubby relapsed into substance addiction. For 4 years our relationship was in crisis. But we continued raising our family as best we could while we navigated his recovery journey.....


After 9 yrs together and on the verge of separation- we recommitted to each other.

Only this time I had wisdom & experience from the past that enabled me to completely reinvent my relationship with him. 

"Destruction leads to a very rough road, but it also breeds creation" (and earthquakes are to a girl's guitar, they're just another good vibration) 🎵🤘🏼

Years 10-16 in our marriage have been our best yet with more acceptance, trust and authenticity than I ever imagined. 

Our girls have grown into extraordinary, resilient young women and our boys are the most emotionally intelligent kids I've ever met (humble brag).

If we can do this, you can too.


You get to be imperfect, flawed humans AND have an incredibly fulfilling marriage.

If you are lucky enough that your partner is also invested in improving your marriage- that's fabulous and also *not essential*.

It only takes one partner to dramatically transform a relationship. When one side of the dynamic changes, the other side of the dynamic can't not change. 

Connection takes courage- not time. Fast, lasting change is the norm in my coaching practice and that's because in my world, marriage is simple.

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